Creative Strategies Continued...

An HR interviewer can easily judge a person. With in 10 minutes of interview- He/She will get to know about the various things in which you are comfortable at or the things that will screw you up. If you have a little conflict in your mind giving any answer and he will read between the lines. Also, HR personnels became accustomed in taking interviews. After taking 500 interviews of different persons –Interviewer will generally get an idea how the best you can play with the minds of the interviewee. So, its very important in the interview for you to remain calm and confident. Also, if you have good command over the language and mastered the art of befooling others with confidence. It becomes very difficult to prove you wrong. Many organizations now a days phychology tests only- to judge the strength of mind in different situations.

Till now i have discussed about the strategy to be one step ahead of the other persons thinking .i.e. knowing the what other person can think or just have a vague idea of what other person is thinking. If that person lives with you or if you meet the person regularly just try to know either by experience – that what could be his/her next actions will be towards you. Try to test it by trial and error methods.

Like for example, If you are the regular customer to a particular shop of clothes or shoes. And the guy who deals with you is the same every time - You know by your regular visits that the guy first judges you and tells the price of the shoes you like more than the one you dislike. He will always says that the one you liked is of better quality and is branded. But this one that you did not like costs less. So you have to strategize the game plan in such a way that show him or imitate your disliking behavior towards the shoes you actually like and vice-versa. The result can be different .i.e. you can end up paying very less for the pair of shoes. But the principle should be kept in mind- “ You must have tried and tested your guesses before actual implementation.”

Another good example of winning against the opponent is to know beforehand what he is going to do .i.e. play your cards in such a way that your opponent is bound to behave or move your desired way. Chess, a mind game, where queen, Knights, Bishops and rooks play an important role - the great players use the strategy to rein in the moves of the opponent. If anyone knows how to play Chess perfectly very well can understand the moves talked about. Successful people are those, who can implement the real moves of Chess game in life.

The Strategy of being Happy: I think this will read by those who feels a little satisfied from life, and find lots of time to think ab. what is happening in their life. First and foremost strategy for being happy is give every moment of your life the fullest .i.e. Have sound sleep when you are sleeping, give the best in every work you are doing at the moment- if you are enjoying songs, studying a book, playing a instrument for 20 minutes – that 20 minutes be honestly devoted to the task that you are performing.

First I was dying to finish my high school and start college. And then I was dying to finish college and start working. Then I was dying to marry and have children. And then I was dying for my children to grow old enough so I could go back to work. But then I was dying to retire. And now I’m dying. And suddenly I realized I forgot to live. Appreciate your current situation and enjoy each day.